Pact welcomes over 40 adopted adults and foster alum to each Pact Family Camp. As an adopted adult or foster alum, you will find a safe space where you can connect with others who share your experiences and identity; you can also interact with children and parents who are in attendance.

Too often in the adoption field, the adoptee perspective is subordinated to that of the adoptive parent. Pact believes that adult adoptees are the truest experts on their own experience. We welcome adoptee voices and support them as part of our mission.

Adopted adults of color are an essential part of Pact Family Camp, including the renowned adoption professionals, researchers, and authors who speak to and work with both children and parents, as well as many of the counselors in the children's program. These adults play a crucial mentoring role for Pact campers of all ages. At Pact Family Camp, kids who feel different on a daily basis get a chance to be surrounded and validated by people who understand where they are coming from.

We know that the adult adoptees and foster alum who attend care deeply about our mission – to serve adopted children of color – because they see themselves reflected in the children we serve. We also understand that topics of adoption, family, oppression, race, and culture can be sensitive, volatile subjects; we want to make sure that you are not being asked to be a teacher of white people and/or adoptive parents if that is not your desire. Of course, we invite people to reach across triad and racial lines as they choose, but we want to acknowledge the power dynamics that can happen when adopted adults and foster alum of color are in the minority.

There are daily opportunities for adopted adults and foster alum of color to meet as a separate group and talk together. We provide safe spaces for adopted and fostered adults to gather in community, offer the opportunity to attend a Pact-sponsored dinner offsite, and provide staff to facilitate conversations and support during both Camps.


Adult adoptees and foster care alums have the option to attend Camp in three ways:

  1. Camper: Register as a single adult (or family) using the regular registration process and paying the Camp fee based on your income level. Your registration will include private hotel-style accommodations. Click here for the Camp Interest Form
  2. Invited speaker: A limited number of adult adoptees and foster care alums will be invited to attend as speakers. While we value the voices of ALL adoptees and foster care alums, Pact will need to balance a number of factors in selecting educators, such as: diversity of experiences with adoption, including new voices, and the ability to provide multiple workshops over several days. If invited to attend as a speaker, you will receive a speaker’s fee, be provided with housing, and be able to attend and participate in Camp programming when you are not presenting.
  3. Camp counselor: Adult adoptees and foster care alums are invited to apply to be counselors in our youth program. We consider you to be great role models for children and would love to have your participation in this way if you are interested and have experience working with youth. Counselors are paid and receive room and board, as well as pre-camp training and post-camp professional development; because they are working they are rarely able to attend adult programming while Camp is in session. Click here for the Counselor Interest Form



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