Pact welcomes birth/first parents—traditionally the most marginalized members of the adoption triad—not just as guest speakers but also as guests, counselors and staff in our entire Family Camp program. The participation of first/birth parents provides ground-breaking opportunities for connections between first families, adoptive/foster parents, adopted/fostered youth, and adoption professionals. Many adoptive parents report that getting to know first/birth parents at Pact Family Camp has been a life-changing experience, challenging them to rethink their assumptions about their children’s first/birth families and about ongoing contact.

Pact Family Camp has proactively included first/birth parents since 2010, and a growing number are attending each year. Some come with their children and their children’s adoptive families, others come on their own. First/birth parents are invited to participate in all of the adult programming (keynote presentations, panel discussions, workshops, etc.). While most of these presentations are designed with adoptive parents as the primary target audience, explorations of the experience of adoption are illuminating to first/birth parents as well, and the presence of first/birth parents deepens the discussions and adds an important perspective.

We know that the first/birth parents who attend Pact Family Camp care deeply about our mission – to serve adopted children of color. We also know that topics of adoption and family, as well as oppression, race and culture, are sensitive, volatile subjects; we want to make sure that you are not being asked to educate adoptive parents or share your experience with adoptees if that is not your desire. Of course, we invite people to reach across triad and racial lines as they choose, but we acknowledge the power dynamics when first/birth parents are in a very small minority. Pact is committed to Camp being not only a “brave space,” but also a safe space for first/birth parents.

Because we understand that the environment can be emotionally triggering, we work to provide safe spaces for first/birth parents to gather in community. We offer the opportunity to attend a Pact-sponsored first/birth parents’ dinner offsite, and we provide staff to facilitate conversations daily and offer support during Camp.


First/birth parents have the option to attend Camp in four ways:

  1. Camper in family accommodations with your child’s adoptive family: Register as a family member of your child/ren placed for adoption who is also attending Camp with their adoptive family. When registering this way, you will be assigned to shared housing with your child(ren) and the adoptive parent(s) of your child. Please coordinate so you are all registered as one party; there will be one group registration fee based on the total number of adults and children and the combined household incomes of your families. Click here to register now.
  2. Camper: Register as a single adult (or family) using the regular registration process and paying the Camp fee based on your income level and/or applying for a scholarship if you qualify. Your registration will include private hotel-style accommodations.
  3. Invited speaker: A limited number of adult adoptees and foster care alums will be invited to attend as speakers. While we value the voices of ALL adoptees and foster care alum, Pact balances a number of factors in selecting educators, such as: diversity of experiences with adoption, including new voices, and the ability to provide multiple workshops over several days.
  4. Camp counselor: Adult adoptees and foster care alum are invited to apply to be counselors in our youth program. We consider you to be great role models for children and would love to have your participation in this way if you are interested and have experience working with youth. Counselors are paid and receive room and board, as well as pre-camp training and post-camp professional development; because they are working they are rarely able to attend adult programming while Camp is in session. Click here for more information about joining our staff.


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